College. >>> jaciel cordoba: Some statistics show that second marriages are more likely to end in divorce than first marriages. >> eve tannery: So how can you make a second marriage work? In Life Lessons, WFMZs Nancy Werteen introduces us to a local couple who are working hard to spice up their second marriage >>Nancy: Relationship experts say many times second marriages can actually be stronger than first marriages because the partners know themselves better and are more committed to getting it right. We found a couple with that kind of fiery attitude about their second time down the aisle. >>Nancy: Have you ever tried fiery bacon dark chocolate ice cream? It's bacon, dark chocolate, hot pepper spices and ice cream. >>Deirdre Kamber Todd 13:42 It's hot. It's cool. It tastes delicious>>Nancy: It's Deirdre Kamber Todd's creation with a little help from husband Russ. >>Nat Sound: 25:24 "Thank you (kiss)>>Nancy: The Todds love spicy unusual foods so much they have their own website devoted to it and they travel the country to jump into food competitions whenever they can.>>Russ Todd: 4:06 Deirdre can handle the hot food, i can eat fast and we just go around and enjoy different foods and competitions and enjoy each other's company 4:19>>Nancy: It's a hobby they feel is part of the glue that keeps them together. >>Deirdre Kamber Todd 1:10 It's not enough that you're in the same stratosphere, whether you're being connected by what you do for a living, you know those superficial connections, at the end of the day you've got to find something else that's going to keep it interesting. 1:26 >>Nancy: Relationship experts agree that Deirdre and Russ are on the right track. They say for a great second marriage: Find a common interest and explore it together Be honest and communicate about the past and the future Accept that there will be ups and downs Be patient and forgiving Deirdre says it was Russ's idea to explore their goals often. >>Deirdre: 2:50 he said as long as you're always keeping in mind those long term goals that are going to take you past whatever bump in the road you hit, that eye toward the horizon, then everything else becomes fairly minor. 3:03 >>Nancy: Deirdre is an attorney and Russ, an engineer. How do they find time for a hobby?>> Deirdre: 606 We look for ways to fit it in to what we would do anyway >>Nancy: Experts say couples should also take time to really explore and understand why their first marriage failed before getting married a second
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